Thursday, December 29, 2016
Thursday, December 15, 2016
40+ Calm Down Tools for Older Kids {Free Printable}
The thing about kids with autism, anxiety, or sensory issues is that they grow up and, while there are lots of resources for young children, there is, unfortunately, a serious lack of resources for parents of older children, pre-teens, teens, and yes, even adults.
You can easily find lots of calm down strategies and suggestions for toddlers, preschoolers, and young children, but there is a gap when it comes to older kids and up. Where are the calming strategies for older children?
Obviously, my kids are still quite young, so I don't have experience with pre-teens, teens, and adults with anxiety, sensory processing disorder, or autism. However, my oldest is already seven and is already requiring a different set of tools in his calm down kit than he did over the past few years.
So if you have been thinking of making a calm down kit geared towards an older child, then look no further than this list of 40+ calm down tools for older kids. I have also included a free printable for you to keep handy while shopping for items for the calm down kit.
40+ Calm Down Tools for Older Kids
There have been numerous times where people have commented that my list of 40+ calm down ideas for kids is geared towards smaller children, which it is, and have wished that there was a solid list of ideas for older children.
So whether you want to build a calm down kit for older kids or you just want a list of awesome calm down tools, then look no further than this list of 40+ calm down tools for older kids!
1. Chewing gum - We like Pur Gum and Glee Gum
2. Hard candy like lollipops, jolly ranchers, Ring Pops, or anything else that can be sucked on
3. Noise canceling headphones for listening to music or audiobooks
4. Hearing protection ear muffs
5. Punching bag or bop bag
6. LEGO kits
7. Book of yoga poses or yoga pose cards
9. Calming essential oil spray
11. Blank notebook/journal and writing utensils
12. Coloring books
13. Skipping rope
14. Chapter books to read
15. Activity books: dot-to-dots, mazes, crosswords, sudoku, etc.
16. Stress balls
17. Rubik's cube
18. Wooden or metal logic puzzles or brain teasers
19. Mini massager
21. MP3 player or iPod loaded with music, audiobooks, nature sounds, etc.
22. Look and find books
23. Kaleidoscope
25. Heated blanket
27. Crunchy snacks
28. Gummy snacks
29. Doodle books
30. Sound machine
31. Craft kits: LEGO Chain Reactions Craft Kit | Knot a Quilt Kit
32. Hand weights or small dumbbells
33. Resistance/exercise stretchy bands
34. Compression clothing
35. Cat's cradle
36. Mad Libs books
37. Puzzles
38. One player travel sized board games: Rush Hour | Laser Maze Logic Game
39. Bop It, Simon, or similar game that uses auditory or visual input
40. Eye mask
41. Chew necklace
42. Lava lamp
43. Scented lotion
44. Scented candles
45. Sunglasses
Download the Free Printable Calm Down Tools for Older Kids List
Sunday, December 04, 2016
How to Make a Christmas Calm Down Kit for Kids
Holidays are super stressful, especially if your little ones get overwhelmed by anxiety or sensory information. So as we get closer to Christmastime, I thought I would put together a Christmas survival calm down kit for kids with autism, sensory issues, or anxiety.
This list of calm down tools for kids are Christmas themed and should help you manage or reduce meltdowns during the holiday season. Or, at least, we hope it will help reduce meltdowns!
Don't forget to read through my list of 26 holiday survival tips for autism families as well.
Christmas Calm Down Kit for Kids with Autism, Sensory Issues, or Anxiety
This list of printables, activities, and ideas are the perfect way to help prepare your child for the stress, unpredictableness, and busyness of the holiday season. There's social stories about Christmas, Christmas visual supports, and lots of practical suggestions on this list that you can use to make a Christmas themed survival kit!
1. Use a Christmas themed visual schedule to help your child know what the holidays will look like for them. I love this Christmas visual schedule for using at home, but for on the go, this set of free printable Christmas visual schedule cards look wonderful too!
2. Help your kids plan Christmas shopping with this free printable Christmas shopping planner flip book to simplify holiday shopping.
3. Make a Christmas themed calm down sensory bottle. Try these cute ideas:
- Christmas Tree in a Bottle Discovery Bottle from Sunny Day Family
- Christmas Tree Sensory Bottle from Stir the Wonder
- Christmas Sensory Bottle from Teaching Mama
- Christmas I Spy Bottles from Little Bins for Little Hands
- Jingle Bells Discovery Bottle from Preschool Inspirations
4. Pack a travel sensory bag for your child and bring it with you while you travel, visit relatives, or attend holiday gatherings. If you want to make a Christmas themed sensory bag, then you'll want to add one of these cute reindeer chewies from Ark Therapeutic.
5. Help your child practice appropriate ways to respond when receiving gifts with this free printable social scripts mini flip book. Hopefully there won't be any awkward comments made about the gifts your kids receive!
6. Read these free social stories about what to expect at Christmas, including visiting family, meeting with Santa, and opening presents with this collection of free Christmas social stories for kids. You can also grab our free printable seeing Santa social story.
7. Make sure your kids get the sensory input that they need over the holidays by using this free printable occupational therapy Christmas calendar.
8. Print off a set of these free printable visual calm down cards and keep them handy while you're traveling. They are a perfect accompaniment to the travel sensory bag (see #4 above).
9. Print off a copy of this free printable letter to Santa and bring it along when you go for a visit or photo with Santa.
10. Prepare your child for Santa's visit with this set of free printable Santa sequencing cards.
11. Use this free printable special needs event planner to help your child prepare for any special holiday gatherings or events. It's a great way for them to learn everything the need to know about the event and to help them successfully plan and attend it.
12. Make a Christmas themed quiet book for your kids. It's a perfect way to help keep your kids busy while traveling to holiday functions or if they need a quiet calm down activity during a function.
13. Print off a bunch of our Christmas I spy printables for kids and make a busy book for your kids. It's perfect for kids who need a bit of visual sensory input while on the go!
14. Get practical tips and advice for surviving the holidays with the book Holidays & PTSD: A Parent's Guide to Survival.
Friday, December 02, 2016
Free Printable Asking for Help Social Scripts for Kids
Asking for help, especially when frustrated, can be quite difficult for kids with autism or hyperlexia.
This set of free printable social scripts about asking for help are perfect for these kids. It gives them a handful of appropriate things to say when they need help with something.
Hopefully these written cues can help reduce a few meltdowns because it gives them the tools they need to effectively communicate their needs.
About This Social Story Scripts Mini Flip Book
This social skills scripts mini flip book gives appropriate prompts for kids with autism or hyperlexia to say when they need to ask for help. It's small in size, so it can fit in the palm of your hand or be tossed in a bag for on the go. Or you could even clip it to your child's belt loops so that it is handy at all times.
Kids with hyperlexia and autism often have trouble expressing when they need help. Scripts, like these, can help them learn what to say and what not to say. That's why I have created these mini social scripts flip books! They're like text only mini social stories to take on the go!
The scripts are just there to help your kid choose an appropriate question or response to say when they need help with something. Use these scripts ahead of time to practice and role play so that they will learn to express themselves when the time is right. With time, you can hopefully phase the scripts out.
To assemble this mini flip book, simply download, print, and cut along the black lines. Blank cards have been included so that you can write your own speech scripts. You might also want to laminate the cards for durability. Then hole punch the cards and put the book together using a a binder ring.
Download the Free Printable Asking for Help Social Scripts
This printable is two pages long and includes 20 cards. It also has four blank cards so that you can write your own to include in the mini flip book.
Simply print, cut, and assemble the cards into little books so you can take them on the go, include them in a calm down corner, etc. You can either staple them together or hole punch and put on a key ring.
To get a copy of this printable, click the link below:
>> Click here to download this free printable
Want More Social Scripts?
You'll find even more topics in the social scripts bundle.
Thursday, December 01, 2016
Easy DIY Minecraft Cake
A day before my niece's 9th birthday part with our family, my mother-in-law phoned and asked if I could make a Minecraft birthday cake for my niece since it was beyond her abilities. And since my niece is practically like my own daughter, I happily accepted and whipped together this amazing (and easy!) Minecraft cake in just a few hours.
This homemade Minecraft cake features chocolate cake bricks, rice krispies bricks, and the most awful tasting coconut water jello blocks ever.
And thankfully, the rest of the cake tasted delicious and my niece was thrilled either way, declaring it the "coolest Minecraft birthday cake ever!"
Easy DIY Minecraft Cake: What You'll Need
- Chocolate cake mix or your favorite homemade chocolate cake recipe
- Two 9 x 13 cake pans - one for the cake and one for the Rice Krispie squares
- 9 x 9 square pan or glass dish for the jello
- Icing spatula or butter knife
- Coconut oil or butter
- Knife to cut the cake
- Blue Jell-O or your favorite homemade jello recipe
- Minecraft figures
- Toothpicks and glue (needed only if using printable Minecraft figures)
Having said all that, use what you prefer. If you're going to make a fun tired Minecraft birthday cake, it might as well taste delicious to you, right?
How to Make a Minecraft Birthday Cake
Other Homemade Birthday Cake Ideas You'll Love
Patrick from SpongeBob Birthday CakeWednesday, November 30, 2016
Free Printable Turn Taking & Sharing Social Scripts for Kids
Taking turns was a social skill that my son J struggled with for quite some time. He's pretty good now, but from time to time, he will still have difficulties waiting for his turn. He would usually get upset if he didn't go first or if the other person is "taking too long" (his words).
Hopefully, this mini flip book of free printable social scripts about taking turns and sharing will be helpful for him.
About This Social Story Scripts Mini Flip Book
This social skills scripts mini flip book gives appropriate prompts for kids with autism or hyperlexia to say when taking turns and sharing. It's small in size, so it can fit in the palm of your hand or be tossed in a bag for on the go. Or you could even clip it to your child's belt loops so that it is handy at all times.
Kids with hyperlexia and autism often have difficulties taking turns and sharing. Scripts, like these, can help them learn what to say and what not to say. That's why I have created these mini social scripts flip books! They're like text only mini social stories to take on the go!
The scripts are just there to help your kid choose an appropriate question or response to say when playing with others. Use these scripts ahead of time to practice and role play so that they will learn to express themselves when the time is right. With time, you can hopefully phase the scripts out.
To assemble this mini flip book, simply download, print, and cut along the black lines. Blank cards have been included so that you can write your own speech scripts. You might also want to laminate the cards for durability. Then hole punch the cards and put the book together using a a binder ring.
Download the Free Printable Turn Taking & Sharing Social Scripts
This printable is two pages long and includes 30 cards. It also has four blank cards so that you can write your own to include in the mini flip book.
Simply print, cut, and assemble the cards into little books so you can take them on the go, include them in a calm down corner, etc. You can either staple them together or hole punch and put on a key ring.
To get a copy of this printable, click the link below:
>> Click here to download this free printable
Want More Social Scripts?
You'll find even more topics in the social scripts bundle.
Monday, November 28, 2016
Free Printable Losing a Game Social Scripts for Kids
I have been convinced for a long time that Snakes and Ladders is the devil. Every single time we play, there's a meltdown and J quits the game, making sure that all players are wiped off the board so that no one else can win. So yes, losing a game is an area that he still struggles with and likely one that he will struggle with for a few more years.
However, we've been working on it through family game nights and by playing cooperative games instead of competitive ones. I'm also hoping that this free printable social scripts mini flip book about losing a game will help him learn to say appropriate things when he does lose a game.
About This Social Story Scripts Mini Flip Book
This social skills scripts mini flip book gives appropriate prompts for kids with autism or hyperlexia to say when they lose a game. It's small in size, so it can fit in the palm of your hand or be tossed in a bag for on the go. Or you could even clip it to your child's belt loops so that it is handy at all times.
Kids with hyperlexia and autism often get upset when they lose a game and can say some rude things when they do lose. Scripts, like these, can help them learn what to say and what not to say. That's why I have created these mini social scripts flip books! They're like text only mini social stories to take on the go!
The scripts are just there to help your kid choose an appropriate question or response to say when losing a game and to show others that they are a good sport. Use these scripts ahead of time to practice and role play so that they will learn to express themselves when the time is right. With time, you can hopefully phase the scripts out.
To assemble this mini flip book, simply download, print, and cut along the black lines. Blank cards have been included so that you can write your own speech scripts. You might also want to laminate the cards for durability. Then hole punch the cards and put the book together using a a binder ring.
Download the Free Printable Losing a Game Social Scripts
This printable is two pages long and includes 20 cards. It also has four blank cards so that you can write your own to include in the mini flip book.
Simply print, cut, and assemble the cards into little books so you can take them on the go, include them in a calm down corner, etc. You can either staple them together or hole punch and put on a key ring.
To get a copy of this printable, click the link below:
>> Click here to download this free printable
Want More Social Scripts?
You'll find even more topics in the social scripts bundle.
Friday, November 25, 2016
Free Printable Greeting People Social Scripts for Kids
Due to J's hyperlexia, greeting people was particularly challenging when he was younger. Besides the obvious struggles with WH questions like "what's your name?" or "how old are you?", he often responds inappropriately or with something that made no sense in the context. I had to guide him with verbal prompts like "you can say hello back" or "you can tell her your name is J."
This free printable greeting people social scripts mini flip book is something that I would have loved to have had in my purse while shopping when he was younger. But, then again, I didn't even know what hyperlexia was at that point.
About This Social Story Scripts Mini Flip Book
This social skills scripts mini flip book gives appropriate prompts for kids with autism or hyperlexia to say when greeting people. It's small in size, so it can fit in the palm of your hand or be tossed in a bag for on the go. Or you could even clip it to your child's belt loops so that it is handy at all times.
Kids with hyperlexia and autism often say awkward or inappropriate things when greeting people and might need guidance when trying to say hi to others. Scripts, like these, can help them learn what to say and what not to say. That's why I have created these mini social scripts flip books! They're like text only mini social stories to take on the go!
The scripts are just there to help your kid choose an appropriate question or response to say when greeting people, either those they know or those they don't know. Use these scripts ahead of time to practice and role play so that they will learn to express themselves when the time is right. With time, you can hopefully phase the scripts out.
To assemble this mini flip book, simply download, print, and cut along the black lines. Blank cards have been included so that you can write your own speech scripts. You might also want to laminate the cards for durability. Then hole punch the cards and put the book together using a a binder ring.
Download the Free Printable Greeting People Social Scripts
This printable is two pages long and includes 20 cards. It also has six blank cards so that you can write your own to include in the mini flip book.
Simply print, cut, and assemble the cards into little books so you can take them on the go, include them in a calm down corner, etc. You can either staple them together or hole punch and put on a key ring.
To get a copy of this printable, click the link below:
>> Click here to download this free printable
Want More Social Scripts?
You'll find even more topics in the social scripts bundle.
Thursday, November 24, 2016
Free Printable How to Apologize Social Scripts for Kids
I'm not one to force my kids to make apologies when they don't understand why they are apologizing in the first place, but I do think it is still important to teach them how to say sorry in an appropriate manner. A manner in which they take responsibility for hurting someone else, whether it was intentional or not. That way when they do apologize for their actions or words on their own, they'll have the tools in place to do so appropriately.
So I created this free printable how to say sorry social scripts mini flip book as a way to practice different ways to say sorry and apologize.
About This Social Story Scripts Mini Flip Book
This social skills scripts mini flip book gives appropriate prompts for kids with autism or hyperlexia to say when apologizing. It's small in size, so it can fit in the palm of your hand or be tossed in a bag for on the go. Or you could even clip it to your child's belt loops so that it is handy at all times.
Kids with hyperlexia and autism often have trouble knowing when to say sorry and may have even more difficulty expressing themselves when they do need to apologize. Scripts, like these, can help them learn what to say and what not to say. That's why I have created these mini social scripts flip books! They're like text only mini social stories to take on the go!
The scripts are just there to help your kid choose an appropriate way to say sorry to others. Use these scripts ahead of time to practice and role play so that they will learn to express themselves when the time is right. With time, you can hopefully phase the scripts out.
To assemble this mini flip book, simply download, print, and cut along the black lines. Blank cards have been included so that you can write your own speech scripts. You might also want to laminate the cards for durability. Then hole punch the cards and put the book together using a a binder ring.
Download the Free Printable How to Say Sorry Social Scripts
This printable is three pages long and includes 30 cards. It also has four blank cards so that you can write your own to include in the mini flip book.
Simply print, cut, and assemble the cards into little books so you can take them on the go, include them in a calm down corner, etc. You can either staple them together or hole punch and put on a key ring.
To get a copy of this printable, click the link below:
>> Click here to download this free printable
Want More Social Scripts?
You'll find even more topics in the social scripts bundle.
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
115+ Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
Do you know how many times I have googled alphabet themed stocking stuffer ideas for kids or number themed stocking stuffer ideas for kids over the years? So many times.
Only I ended up disappointed because there never seems to be such a gift list.
I can easily find lots of great lists of general stocking stuffer ideas, but nothing perfect for hyperlexic kids, like my son. Although, if I must admit, he is super easy to buy for because his interests are so strong! However, sometimes I struggle to find one or two more items for his Christmas stocking.
This stocking stuffer gift list for kids with hyperlexia includes ideas related to some of their favorite topics: letters, numbers, outer space, geography, and periodic tables! Obviously, this gift list isn't exclusive for kids with hyperlexia and can be useful if you have a child without hyperlexia who is interested in these same topics.
I've included items from various price points, to fit every budget, and lots of these items could be picked up from the dollar store or bargain bins if you'd like to keep them under a certain price point. I also tried to include ideas that would cover a variety of ages, not just young kids with hyperlexia. But everything on this list should appeal to your kids with hyperlexia!
Alphabet & Letter Themed Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
- Alphabet books: I Spy Letters Books
- Book of word searches
- Alphabet magnets: Plastic | Wooden
- Days of the week underwear: Boys briefs | Girls panties
- Alphabet puzzles: Melissa & Doug Alphabet Express Jumbo Jigsaw Floor Puzzle | Melissa & Doug Upper & Lower Case Alphabet Letters Wooden Puzzle
- ABC Singing Toothbrush
- Magnetic Poetry Kit for Kids - lots of versions available, including other languages
- Foam letters
- Alphabet stickers
- Alphabet dice
- Bananagrams (pictured)
- Boggle
- Alphabet snacks: Alphabet gummies | Alphabet pretzels | Letter of the day cookies
- Chewy Tubes P and Q
- Alphabet themed reusable snack bags (pictured)
- Alphabet stamps
- Alphabet socks
- Alphabet t-shirt
- Alphabet Go Fish Matching Game
- Spot It Alphabet
- Wikki Stix Alphabet Fun Cards
- Flashcards, especially for other languages
- Scrabble Slam
- A-Z Letter Links
- Alphabet beads
- Alphabet placemat
- Dictionary or thesaurus
- Alphabet board games, especially small travel size games: Hangman Take Anywhere Game
- Alphabet tableware &/or cutlery
- Alphabet Magnatab (pictured; lots of versions available)
- Thinkfun Pathwords Jr Puzzle
- Alphabet blocks
- Melissa & Doug On the Go Water Wow! Water-Reveal Activity Pads Set - Alphabet (pictured)
- Alphabet workbook
- Alphabet pajamas
- Bookmarks
- Crossword puzzle books
- Quiddler Card Game
Number & Math Themed Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
- Number or math books: I Spy Numbers (more suggestions: Books for Kids Who Love Big Numbers & Math)
- Sudoku books
- Dot-to-dot books
- Mark-My-Time Digital Bookmark
- Number magnets
- Number puzzles: Melissa & Doug Self-Correcting Wooden Number Puzzles With Storage Box | Melissa & Doug See-Inside Numbers Wooden Peg Puzzle
- Number stickers
- Watch
- IcoSoKu Brainteaser Puzzle
- Pedometer
- Sliding number puzzle
- Number snacks
- Calendar
- UNO
- Skip Bo
- Math related flashcards, such as math, money, addition, etc.
- Dice games
- Learning Resources Fraction Tower Cubes Equivalency Set (pictured)
- Number stamps
- Number snacks: Dick & Jane Bilingual Educational Snacks with Numbers
- Number t-shirt
- Sumoku (pictured)
- Learning Resources I See 10! Game
- Measuring tape or ruler
- Number/math placemat
- Numbers/math board games, especially small travel size games: Geospace Math Spin Magnetic Spin Game (pictured)
- Number/math tableware &/or cutlery
- Number Magnatab
- Stopwatch
- Mobi the Numeric Tile Game
- Abacus
- Color by numbers or paint by numbers books
- Melissa & Doug On the Go Water Wow! Water-Reveal Activity Pads Set - Numbers
- Math workbooks
- Foam numbers
- Tenzi Dice Game
- Braindice
- Dominoes
- Educational Insights Math Trekker (pictured)
- Digital Thermometer with Indoor/Outdoor Temperature
Map & Geography Themed Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
- Geography books or atlas: Maps
- Map puzzles: Mudpuppy North America 42 PC Puzzle (pictured)
- GeoBingo Games
- GeoCards World - Educational Geography Card Game (pictured)
- Geography tableware &/or cutlery
- All About the States: Search-a-Word Puzzles
- Geography stickers
- Peaceable Kingdom Sticker Fun! World Map Reusable Sticker Tote (pictured)
- Globe stress ball
- Travel/road maps
- Inflatable globe
- World map poster or wall decal
- Scrambled States Game
- ALEX Toys Rub a Dub USA Map in the Tub (pictured)
- Scrunch World Map
- Flag Frenzy Card Game
Periodic Table Themed Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
- Periodic table books
- ETA hand2mind Periodic Table Connecting Color Tiles (pictured)
- Periodic table placemat
- Periodic table jigsaw puzzle (pictured)
- Periodic table poster (pictured)
- Periodic table t-shirt
- Uncle Goose Periodic Table Blocks (pictured; a bit expensive for a stocking stuffer, but definitely cool!)
Space Themed Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Kids with Hyperlexia
Most kids with hyperlexia, or at least the ones that I know of, have a fascination with outer space and planets. J went through a period of time where he was extremely interested in planets as well. Here are some great space themed stocking stuffer ideas.- Books about planets & space: National Geographic Kids First Big Book of Space | There's No Place Like Space: All About Our Solar System
- Planets placemat
- Glow-in-the-dark stars
- Space puzzles: Crocodile Creek Space Puzzle & Poster (pictured) | Melissa & Doug Solar System Floor Puzzle
- Space stickers (pictured)
- Planet plates (kind of expensive, so might be a better gift idea than stocking stuffer)
- Planet bowls (kind of expensive, so might be a better gift idea than stocking stuffer)
- Space t-shirt
- Space socks
- ZooBooKoo Cube Book, Planets (pictured)
- Space poster
- Learning Resources Inflatable Solar System (a bit expensive for a stocking stuffer, but the kids will love it!)
- 3D Planets in a Tube (pictured)
- Safari Ltd Safariology The Solar System
- Safari Ltd Space TOOB
- Space themed pajamas
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This post is part of a monthly series called Parenting Children with Special Needs. This month's topic is best gifts and you can find the other posts regarding this topic below.